My wide hips and fat ass make my butt plug almost disappear. I usually have this in my ass when I'm at work or out on the town. It feels empty if it's not there. Not sure but I think I go more feminine when it's in my ass, at least if I buy the next one a little thicker. My ass and hips look very big but it's easy to get a good grip when someone fucks me. Would like to let them grow as well as my breasts but have trouble finding clothes that fit. I'm not ready to switch to wearing women's clothes all the time. It works at home, among friends but out among strangers it starts to get hard and at work it does not work at all. Then it is sometimes exciting to be out and dress in women's clothes and meet other unknown people ´but then I choose the time and where. We will see, still have several boxes of pills, they last at least two - three months.